Off body: One Woman’s Take on Concealed Carry

off body concealed carry
| November 26, 2013
Categories: Learnin'

Off body concealed carry revisited. [This originally ran several years ago].

We know there’s always a hue and and a cry when someone professes to prefer it. It wouldn’t be our first choice either, but we’d rather the females in our lives carried a gun in their purse (and trained with it from there) than not at all. Anyway, you guys know we like redheads. Today we’ve set a dangerous precedent; we’ve provided a pulpit by which one off-body CCW redhead can evangelize.   She’s going to explain her methodology and why she carries the way she does. Mad Duo

Fight Like a Girl: One Woman’s Take on Concealed Carry

Recently I have had a steady stream of new woman gun owners ask me about carrying concealed in a purse.   I am still gaining my proficiency with this system, but I felt that I should write something to offer insight into why it works for me. I’m not former military, LEO or anything special at all. I’m simply a woman that carries a loaded handgun for personal protection.

Why do I purse carry? I have never lost a purse or had one stolen. Whenever I leave my house my purse becomes an extension of me, an extension that is never left behind (or unattended). It’s been like that since I was 16 and in my prime for irresponsibility. When I first began carrying concealed I allowed the naysayers to get to me and cloud my judgment. I read article after article preaching that you should always carry on your person. So I tried that, but as much as I like to wear impractical shoes, I like wearing dresses and skinny jeans more. Women’s body shape and choice of fashion is generally not readily compatible with concealed carry.  For the sake of fashion, I often left my handgun at home.

It took my watching of a horrific newscast, where a local college aged girl was viciously attacked, to make me realize I had to find a solution. I would rather have my handgun in my purse than not with me at all. The more comfortable I became with carrying concealed and the more I considered purse carrying, the more I knew it was for me. Without this mode of carry, I would require a smaller gun, which in turn frequently means a less effective gun. Not a compromise that I would make.  A Glock 23 is my daily carry. Of all the weapons  I have tried, it is the weapon I am most comfortable and effective with. Unfortunately, it prints too much on my clothing, and would require the need to change between a belly band, IWB, thigh, and ankle holster to accommodate my wardrobe. This many different carry methods would be complicated and less efficient.  I could instead have my gun in my purse every time, creating a system for me that does not fluctuate according to what I am wearing. Day in and day out, regardless if I’m at the mall or at the movies with my friends, it’s exactly in the same place. Early in our relationship, my boyfriend would only walk down city streets allowing me to hold his left hand. It confused me, but now I know that it was so I could never impede his right hand draw. For this same reason, I always carry my purse on the left shoulder. If I feel threatened, I can slip my little sandwich maker onto the grip and have the gun ready to draw. If necessary, I can even fire from inside the purse. The purse also has the added benefit of enabling me to carry at least one extra magazine as well as a spare mag for my boyfriend if he starts feeling lazy.

If I feel threatened, I can slip my little sandwich maker onto the grip and have the gun ready to draw. If necessary, I can even fire from inside the purse.

Finding an appropriate purse was a lot more difficult than I expected it to be. I started with a somewhat stiff, leather purse in which I designated a specific compartment to house my Glock. I was still terrified that a random tampon or tube of lipstick would make its way to find the trigger and was thrilled when Raven Concealment launched their Vanguard. This not only disbursed my fear, but also allowed me the ability to safely carry in any of my purses. My boyfriend stitched a loop of 550 parachute cord and attached  a small carabiner in the bottom corner of my bag. This created a place to hook the Vanguard onto, so I could quickly draw my weapon. Tethered inside the special “gun only” pocket, the pistol cannot rotate or shift out of position. After I bought an actual concealed carry purse, He made a Velcro attachment for the vanguard to use instead of the crappy holster that came with it. Another great feature to the Vanguard is the belt loop. If I am ever in a house with small children or just want to adjust my way of carrying, the belt loop enables me to freely switch back and forth without needing to carry around another holster. Small and simple, it allows the options of IWB on my hip or appendix carry.

Just because my dad never taught me how to change a tire on a car doesn’t mean that I didn’t learn how to. I realized it was an important life skill, and learned it on my own from the first person that would teach me

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If you are thinking of purse carry I suggest you check out a Vanguard, a decent holster purse, or in the very least find a purse that has a compartment that you can keep your gun in by itself. Your purse should not be the black hole your pistol disappears into, never to see the light of day again.  You should practice dry firing your weapon by pulling it from your bag as often as possible. This will allow you to gain confidence and speed. The muscle memory of that action will be vital should you ever need to draw from your purse in a high stress situation.  After becoming familiar with this thru dry fire, you MUST practice your system at the range. If you haven’t done so already, seek formal training from a reputable instructor (or instructors).  Many women don’t know where to turn to if their family or significant other are not from a gun culture background.  Just because my dad never taught me how to change a tire on a car doesn’t mean that I didn’t learn how to. I realized it was an important life skill, and learned it on my own from the first person that would teach me. Shooting, especially carrying a firearm, is no different.  No excuses, learn how to shoot. Find a system that works for you, and religiously carry it.  Like I’ve heard my boyfriend say countless times, “When seconds count, cops are only minutes away.”

I hope my observations have been helpful to some of the ladies out there on the fence about CCW.  Take care and stay safe.


This article was written by Ashley Flanary; it was originally published in 2013. 

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